information on cookies see our Cookie Policy. (BUTTON) X Coping: Learn to laugh maniacally in the face of stress My usually optimistic partner is feeling the pressure – but it hasn’t -- Lately, however, there has been a shift. My partner is the one showing signs of stress. This is out of character. He is usually one of those remarkable creatures – an optimist. -- That knowledge isn’t much comfort, though, when you live with a deeply stressed man who is staring at his laptop, wearing nothing but a pair of underpants and an open dressing gown, shouting “I’ve lost all today’s work; this arsing machine!” Beneath the stress, however, he is his old self. Yesterday he was completing a job application while clicking his tongue.