Teacher Network Children need to know stress is normal, not necessarily a mental health problem -- That’s not to deny that there’s a problem. According to a survey conducted by the Association of School and College Leaders (ASCL), more than half (55%) of schools report increased stress and anxiety among their pupils. Over the past five years, 40% have seen a large rise in cyberbullying; four out of five (79%) report more self harm and -- things that bring children out of themselves. We should give them something to aspire to or embrace. We need to prepare them for adulthood, and let them know that a certain amount of stress and feeling down is just part of growing up.