The Fraught Language of Adoption experiences finding her birth parents after a “closed” adoption, meaning that unlike in an “open” adoption, she had no contact with them Transracial adoption has a lot of critics—from both the left and the she’s not as familiar with the terminology around adoption. I don’t adoption and your childhood, and it’s really not our place to challenge adoption—it wasn’t something even many of the people closest to me shift toward open adoptions over closed. My adoption was closed, like closed adoptions? If someone were to ask you now which way to adopt, more openness in adoption. Of course, a huge number of the adoptions in birth family, it’s difficult to have an open adoption internationally, or maintain those ties across that kind of distance. And open adoption questions, especially if they’re considering transracial adoption. Are