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Home 2. Lifestyle 3. Family 4. Adoption Lifestyle Everything you need to know about adoption and forming a forever family As part of National Adoption Week we've spoken to First4Adoption to find out how to start the long complicated, but rewarding journey to giving a child a home * Share * * * * * * * * * * Comments By Steve MyallDeputy Features Editor * 20:27, 17 OCT 2018 Lifestyle It’s a good idea to read widely about adoption when starting to think whether adoption is right for you. (Image: Getty Images) Get daily news updates directly to your inbox ____________________ (BUTTON) Subscribe See our privacy noticeMore newsletters Thank you for subscribingWe have more newslettersShow meSee our privacy notice Could not subscribe, try again laterInvalid Email This week we have been highlighting the stories of children desperate for forever families and yesterday of a super-adopter dad. Hopefully we have inspired you to consider adopting. This guide put together by First4Adoption will show you how to choose an adoption agency and give you ideas on what questions you might want to ask to help you make the right decisions along the way. Am I eligible? If you are single; unmarried; aged over 40; gay or straight; actively practising religion; unemployed; renting your home; married or in a civil partnership; or if you have a disability. You can adopt a child from a different ethnic background to you own. Take the test or call the First4Adoption information line (0300 222 0022) to find out if you can apply. Is Adoption Right For Me? It's important to find the adoption agency that is right for you. (Image: Getty Images/Westend61) Read More * 'They really are two peas in a pod': Hope that tiny twins can find forever home so they can grow up together This can be the hardest thing to decide and to help you reach this decision. Talk to people – You’d be surprised how many people have adoption stories to share. Read about Adopters real life experiences It’s a good idea to read widely about adoption, especially about other people’s experiences , when starting to think about whether adoption is the right option for you. Many adopters blog about their day to day experiences sharing the ups and downs of being a parent and this can help you envisage how your situation might be. There are thousands of children who need a good home Find agencies in your area and attend information sessions Agencies run adoption information sessions and we recommend that you attend a few. Find out which agencies operate in your area by calling First4Adoption on 0300 222 0022 or searching their online database . Information sessions are friendly, informal events that are usually planned group sessions (but you can arrange a 1:1 with an agency if you wish). They provide an opportunity to find out more about how the agency operates and will begin to give you an idea of whether it’s the type of agency for you. In addition you will probably get the chance to speak to adopters. Prospective adopters often find contact with people that have been through the process extremely valuable so we recommend that you prepare some questions in advance to help you build your own personal adoption picture and give you an idea of what to expect. Questions may include: What made you want to adopt? Did you know what age child you wanted to adopt? What made you think of adopting siblings/ Did you consider adopting siblings? What support have you needed? (wider family, friends, professional) What contact have you had with the birth family? Was this difficult? You may also want to find out more about the children that need adopting. More details about their backgrounds and statistics on the children in care can be found here . Adoption can sometimes be an emotional journey (Image: Getty Images) Read More * What to never say to a parent who has adopted a child - and what you should Adoption is right for me. What do I do next? Once you have gathered all the information you can and you’re convinced that adoption is still the right option for you you will pick an adoption agency. Attending adoption sessions help you get an idea of which agency you think you could work with. It is really important to find an adoption agency that is right for you. You can choose to be assessed to be an adoptive parent by a voluntary adoption agency or a Local Authority adoption agency. Choosing an agency may depend on many factors: How easy is it to reach? Are they recruiting? How welcoming are they? What services and support do they offer? Meet the agency - more important than the practical considerations above is the personal relationship and rapport you build with the agency staff. Adoption is an emotional journey and much of this will be made with your agency. Finding people you are comfortable with is therefore vitally important. This will help you decide if you want to start the adoption journey, and help you to prepare for being assessed to be approved as an adoptive parent. There's more information on that here . Get In Touch If you have any questions about adopting visit www.first4adoption.org.uk/ You can also follow First4Adoption for the latest adoption news on Twitter or on Facebook Read More Top news stories from Mirror Online * Canary Wharf commuter dies * Surrey train 'murderer' appears in court * Snowflake soldier 'unhappy' with poster * Like us on Facebook * Follow us on Twitter * Daily news Newsletter DailyMirror * Follow @DailyMirror Subscribe to our Daily news newsletterEnter email Email address...____Subscribe Comments Show more comments More On * Adoption * (BUTTON) Lifestyle * (BUTTON) all * (BUTTON) Most Read * (BUTTON) Most Recent [transparent.png] Andy CappAndy Capp - 8th January 2019Andy Capp has been a favourite part of the Daily Mirror since 1957. 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