AIBU? ยป Regarding parents in law and toilet training Start new thread in this topic | Watch this thread | Flip this thread | Refresh the display -- Go to page 1___________________ Go Regarding parents in law and toilet training (42 Posts) -- I know but I do feel we have made some progress because before he would not even sit on the potty. Parents in law are appalled that he is not trained as their children were all trained at 18 months. I can't critisise them really because they are really helpful to me in terms of childcare and are very kind -- telling me all the time, well mine were trained by a year/18 month onwards, ignore them, it doesn't matter. With the in-laws I think you need to speak to them about this incident, obviously you are still upset about it (as I would be too) you need to clear the air, especially if they do look after DS for you. Maybe