#Chinkee Tan » Feed Chinkee Tan » Comments Feed Chinkee Tan » Mahalin at Igalang ang Biyenan Comments Feed alternate alternate IFRAME: https://www.googletagmanager.com/ns.html?id=GTM-W8DL8V4 Chinkee Tan Chinkee Tan * * About * Blog * Videos * Shop * Intl Delivery * Invite Me * Mahalin at Igalang ang Biyenan May 15, 2018 By chinkeetan Q Ikaw ba ay may biyenan na ngayon? Or malapit ka na magka biyenan? Uy congrats, magkakaroon tayo ng additional family member na pwede nating lapitan at ituring na pangalawang nanay o tatay. Gusto ko nga pala batiin ang aking pinakamamahal na biyenan! Hahaha. Anyway, kamustahin ko lang, kamusta ang inyong relasyon sa kanila? Kapag ba kayo’y nagkikita, kayo’y… * Nag-iisnaban? * Nagtatarayan? * O talagang one happy family? Well I hope you are all happy together. Walang away o bangayang nagaganap. “Paano Chinkee kung hindi talaga kami magkasundo?” “Kakainis kasi sila, pakialamera!” “Hay nako, nakikipag-agawan sa anak eh may asawa na nga.” Maaring may iba sa atin ay may hugot pagdating sa biyenan. Pero nand’yan na ‘yan kahit pagbali-baliktarin, magulang pa din sila ng ating asawa. Anu-ano ba yung klase ng mga biyenan at paano natin ito ihahandle ng maayos? THE “ME-MA” biyenan (Photo from this Link) Lahat papansinin. Lahat pupunahin. “Bakit ganyan ka manamit, may asawa ka na noh..” “Ha? Magtatrabaho ka, kanino mo iiwan mga bata?” “Ano, pinayagan mo anak mo mag sleepover?” Hangga’t may nakikita silang mali o ayaw nila, hindi sila titigil magsalita. HOW TO DEAL: Labas lang sa kabilang tenga. Hindi naman tayo mananalo sa kanila eh maski tingin nating tama tayo. Hangga’t walang nagbababa ng pride, hindi matatapos ang usapan. Kung tingin nating wala naman tayong ginagawang masama then we don’t need to be defensive. THE “SURPRISE” biyenan (Photo from this Link) * Sila yung pupunta ng walang pasabi. * Laging tumatawag sa ating mga asawa. * Kukunin yung mga bata ng hindi nagpapaalam. * Gugulatin na lang tayo na napagplanuhan na pala nila ang buhay natin. “Sa Sunday DAPAT dito kayo ah..” “Hindi na, kami na nagbayad para sa birthday ng aming apo.” “Out of the country tapos kayo lang? Kasama dapat kami!” HOW TO DEAL: We have to put our foot down. Tayo ang last say sa kahit anong may kinalaman sa ating pamilya. We don’t have to get angry. Hindi din natin sila kailangang bastusin. Sabihin lang natin: “Sorry pero naka-plano na po ang Sundays namin.” “Kami na po ang bahala sa birthday.” “Sige soon, sama sama naman po tayo.” Gano’n lang. We can say it honestly and respectfully at the same time. THE “TULUNGAN MO KAMI” LINE biyenan (Photo from this Link) “Padalan mo naman kami, wala na kaming pera..” “Ikaw na muna bahala sa kuryente’t tubig ah..” “Ito lang? Dagdagan mo naman, OFW naman asawa mo.” Hingi dito, hingi doon. Basta pagkakagastusan, lalapit sila. Hindi lang sila, kundi buong angkan nakaasa na. Pati birthday ng apo sa kuko, pinapasagot sa atin. HOW TO DEAL: Walang masama tumulong. Wala din naman masamang tumanggi. Explain to them na may mga iba tayong pinagkakagastusan. Na kailangan din natin mag-ipon para sa araw-araw na gastusin especially para sa mga bata. They have to understand and they NEED to understand. Pwede naman tayo tumulong sa ibang paraan. * Tulungan sila magbuild ng hanapbuhay. * Turuan sila magbudget at mag-ipon. * Gabayan sila paano mapapalago ang pera. “Mahalin at Igalang natin ang ating mga Biyenan dahil sila ang dahilan kaya nandito ang ating mga asawa ” –Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker THINK. REFLECT. 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